So the hubby and I get into a fight...ok no problem every couple fights but what kills me is that the fight is always about nothing...absolutely nothing! I mean how do you take a whole lot of nothing and fight over it?
I had run out to some errands and got back an hour later only to find angry hubby banging the bbq around in the garage...dinner was late...man it just kills me that I have spoiled my family -especially hubby into believing that he actually is the "KING of the castle". So I went on to say that I had a few things to do but it was only 5pm and he could wait half an hour (I don't think that is an unreasonable request). Hubby pointed out how he works all day. I guess I just sat around all day watching my stories and and eating bon bons.
Well it got to a point in the arguement that I was so angry that I really just wanted to take the cup that was lying on the table and bash his head in with it -after quickly thinking of the fact that I didnt want to go to jail I decided to throw the cup into the sink an man it really did make me feel better. But my bubble would soon burst when I realized that I was the one who now had to clean up the mess and that I was short not only the darn cup I broke, but also the two glasses and plate that I also broke....Oh well at least I felt better for the 10 mins that I did.
I guess the moral of this story is....either make dinner on time or if you get so angry you want to throw that darn cup in the sink...wash the dishes first!!!!
Tuesday, December 22, 2009
Friday, December 18, 2009
Welcome
So I decided to start a blog. Why? Well first let me tell why I didn't start this blog. This is not to put down men, I don't hate them, in fact I am married to one. It's not to put down the children cuz I have 4 of those too! I love marriage and married life and I love being a stay at home mom BUT....everyone has to have a place to rant, rave and complain about their pet peeves!!!
This is my place!
As I was sitting with my friend the other day we started talking about issues that totally Tee me off! (have to watch the language cuz my mommy is reading this too!)
But I also realized how dis-functionally functional we really are. I mean for all those people who are blessed with the "perfect marriage" I think you are all liars and all those people who think that you're glad you're at home (having given up your career, your life and probably going to the bathroom) to see the smile on your child's face when he sees you in the morning ...well I think you are all just kidding yourselves. I mean, dont get me wrong, I love my husband and kids and would do almost anything for them but man there are the days that I want them to tell them to Shut- up and to kick my hubby in the seat of his pants! Oh well like I said...dis-functionally functional.
As a young girl, I used to write my angry thoughts down on paper, read them and then tear them up -very therapeutic! as an adult, I would rather share them with the world. There may be some exaggerations, and some times where even you would wish that I'd shut up but like I said to my hubby--YOU CAN"T MAKE ME!!!!
Lets see where this leads and IF it makes me feel better knowing that I am sharing my pet peeves with the rest of the world...who knows...It might lighten your day too!!!
Oh well....happy reading!
This is my place!
As I was sitting with my friend the other day we started talking about issues that totally Tee me off! (have to watch the language cuz my mommy is reading this too!)
But I also realized how dis-functionally functional we really are. I mean for all those people who are blessed with the "perfect marriage" I think you are all liars and all those people who think that you're glad you're at home (having given up your career, your life and probably going to the bathroom) to see the smile on your child's face when he sees you in the morning ...well I think you are all just kidding yourselves. I mean, dont get me wrong, I love my husband and kids and would do almost anything for them but man there are the days that I want them to tell them to Shut- up and to kick my hubby in the seat of his pants! Oh well like I said...dis-functionally functional.
As a young girl, I used to write my angry thoughts down on paper, read them and then tear them up -very therapeutic! as an adult, I would rather share them with the world. There may be some exaggerations, and some times where even you would wish that I'd shut up but like I said to my hubby--YOU CAN"T MAKE ME!!!!
Lets see where this leads and IF it makes me feel better knowing that I am sharing my pet peeves with the rest of the world...who knows...It might lighten your day too!!!
Oh well....happy reading!
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