Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Anger Management

So the hubby and I get into a fight...ok no problem every couple fights but what kills me is that the fight is always about nothing...absolutely nothing! I mean how do you take a whole lot of nothing and fight over it?

I had run out to some errands and got back an hour later only to find angry hubby banging the bbq around in the garage...dinner was late...man it just kills me that I have spoiled my family -especially hubby into believing that he actually is the "KING of the castle". So I went on to say that I had a few things to do but it was only 5pm and he could wait half an hour (I don't think that is an unreasonable request). Hubby pointed out how he works all day. I guess I just sat around all day watching my stories and and eating bon bons.

Well it got to a point in the arguement that I was so angry that I really just wanted to take the cup that was lying on the table and bash his head in with it -after quickly thinking of the fact that I didnt want to go to jail I decided to throw the cup into the sink an man it really did make me feel better. But my bubble would soon burst when I realized that I was the one who now had to clean up the mess and that I was short not only the darn cup I broke, but also the two glasses and plate that I also broke....Oh well at least I felt better for the 10 mins that I did.

I guess the moral of this story is....either make dinner on time or if you get so angry you want to throw that darn cup in the sink...wash the dishes first!!!!

4 comments:

  1. lesson, keep sink clear of dishes to avoid a shortage of dishes LOL.
    thank you for not bashing my angry brother's head open!

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  2. Have you tried making enough yesterday to have left overs for today's dinner? then make the fresh dinner tonight, twice as much and leave the left over for the next day dinner and so on... My mother used to say that a hungry man is like a hungry lion -- he'll eat you up with his anger....

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  3. LOL...Well my hubby is spoiled and does not like left overs...he can tell (or so he says) the difference between a new meal and one that is recycled...

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  4. My dear,

    Let us see what would happen, if God forbid, you got very sick and could not do any housework including the cooking! The shoe would be on the other foot, so to speak and this would certainly teach a valuable lesson to your other dear half.

    Peace!

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